2025 Mar 31st
Autism and Toileting: Expert Tips, Support and Incontinence Products
Potty training, toileting, and incontinence can be challenging for individuals with autism, but with the right strategies and resources, it is possible to help them learn these important skills.
Before we review the strategies, you must understand that individuals and children with autism may have difficulty with social cues and communication, which can make potty training more challenging. They may also have difficulty with routine changes, such as transitioning from diapers to underwear.
Why Should You Take Our Advice?
Founded in 2020 by Laurie Borowski, InControl Diapers has helped thousands of individuals who deal with urinary and bowel incontinence. Our experience comes from years of developing and supplying incontinence products that make a positive difference in their lives. In a nutshell, we know a thing or two about toileting.
Without further ado, here are strategies, products, and resources to keep in mind when you are toilet training individuals and children with autism:
Strategy #1 - Use Visual Aids
One helpful method is using visual aids, such as picture charts or social stories, to help them understand the steps involved in using the toilet.
Strategy #2 - Develop A Customized Plan
Parents may also consider working with an occupational therapist or a behaviour therapist, who can help develop a customized plan to address their child's specific needs.
Strategy #3 - Create A Comfortable, Relaxing Environment
Make sure they are comfortable and relaxed when using the toilet. Some children with autism may have sensory sensitivities, which means adjustments may need to be made. This can be as simple as providing a small stool to put their feet on or using a specific type of toilet paper they prefer.
What If My Autistic Child Is Incontinent?
Incontinence is a different matter that can affect individuals with autism. This might be caused by a variety of factors including a difficulty controlling their bladder or bowel movements, or a struggle to communicate when they need to use the toilet. Parents may need to work with their child's healthcare provider to develop a plan to address incontinence.
InControl does have products that can help with incontinence for teenagers and adults:
BeDry Diapers
Our BeDry series is a popular diaper option among those who deal with incontinence. Please be aware that these sizes are meant for adults, so it will only work if your child fits within the outlined dimensions.
Bentonite Powder
Our Bentonite Healing Powder is an all-natural solution that absorbs moisture and protects against diaper rash, so it’s one less thing for you to worry about.
Silence Pants
Silence Pants are a waterproof diaper cover that offer a blend of durability and comfort. They are designed for convenience and crafted from breathable, lightweight fabric that has a slight stretch. They are also wide enough to accommodate pads, and washable or disposable diapers.
Resources For Parents of Autistic Children
There are additional resources available for parents of children with autism. Many of these resources supply tips for potty training, toileting, and incontinence.
Some organisations that may be helpful:
These resources can assist parents of children with autism to teach their child key skills associated with potty training, toileting and/or managing incontinence. Every child is unique. It may take time and patience to find the best approach, but with the right support and resources, parents can help their child become more independent and self-sufficient.